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Abayas for wedding guests, from nikah to walima

Fourteen abayas picked for going to a wedding as a guest: dressy enough for an evening hall, never so loud that they pull attention from the couple. Most are navy with soft blue irises or dusty mauve with pink rosebuds, and a handful of cape and pleated designs bring gold work for the bigger nights.

  • Single pieces welcome
  • Full payment in advance
  • 5 to 7 working days to make
  • Delivered worldwide
Design preview of the Iris cape abayaDesign preview
Design preview of the Rosebud pleated abaya, sleeveDesign preview
Design preview of the Arabesque cape abaya, back viewDesign preview

14 designs

The collection

Each design is made to order in your size or to your measurements. The pictures are design previews made before sewing, so the finished piece is confirmed in your written quote.

14 designs shown

  • Design preview of the Iris cape abaya in navy: cape layer, open front, iris embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Iris cape abaya

    An open cape abaya in navy, embroidered with soft blue irises along the edges of the cape, down both front edges and on the cuffs. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Cape layer
    • Open front
    • Iris embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Rosebud pleated abaya in dusty mauve: pleated panels, open front, rosebud embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Rosebud pleated abaya

    An open pleated abaya in dusty mauve, embroidered with pink rosebuds on a cream vine down both front edges and above the pleated sleeve ends. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Pleated panels
    • Open front
    • Rosebud embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Arabesque cape abaya in burgundy: cape layer, open front, arabesque embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Arabesque cape abaya

    An open cape abaya in burgundy, embroidered with gold arabesque scrollwork along the edges of the cape, down both front edges and on the cuffs. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Cape layer
    • Open front
    • Arabesque embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Rosebud tulip abaya in dusty mauve: petal sleeves, open front, rosebud embroidery, matching scarf£99Regular £125· 21% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Rosebud tulip abaya

    An open tulip abaya in dusty mauve with petal sleeves, embroidered with pink rosebuds on a cream vine in a spray over one shoulder and down the front, and on the sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Petal sleeves
    • Open front
    • Rosebud embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Iris layered abaya in navy: layered sleeves, closed front, iris embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Iris layered abaya

    A navy layered-sleeve abaya with a round neck, embroidered with soft blue irises in a spray over one shoulder and on the layered sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Layered sleeves
    • Closed front
    • Iris embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Palm Arc pleated abaya in chocolate brown: pleated panels, open front, palm frond embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Palm Arc pleated abaya

    An open pleated abaya in chocolate brown, embroidered with gold and bronze palm fronds down both front edges and above the pleated sleeve ends. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Pleated panels
    • Open front
    • Palm frond embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Rosebud bell abaya in dusty mauve: bell sleeves, closed front, rosebud embroidery, matching scarf£80Regular £99· 19% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Rosebud bell abaya

    A dusty mauve bell-sleeve abaya with an A-line cut, embroidered with pink rosebuds on a cream vine down the neck opening and on the flared sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Bell sleeves
    • Closed front
    • Rosebud embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Iris bisht abaya in navy: bisht style, open front, iris embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Iris bisht abaya

    A flowing, open bisht-style abaya in navy, embroidered with soft blue irises down both front edges and around the ends of the sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Bisht style
    • Open front
    • Iris embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Magnolia cape abaya in ivory: cape layer, open front, magnolia embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Magnolia cape abaya

    An open cape abaya in ivory, embroidered with peach and gold magnolias along the edges of the cape, down both front edges and on the cuffs. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Cape layer
    • Open front
    • Magnolia embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Rosebud cape abaya in dusty mauve: cape layer, open front, rosebud embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Rosebud cape abaya

    An open cape abaya in dusty mauve, embroidered with pink rosebuds on a cream vine along the edges of the cape, down both front edges and on the cuffs. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Cape layer
    • Open front
    • Rosebud embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Iris pleated abaya in navy: pleated panels, open front, iris embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Iris pleated abaya

    An open pleated abaya in navy, embroidered with soft blue irises down both front edges and above the pleated sleeve ends. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Pleated panels
    • Open front
    • Iris embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Arabesque pleated abaya in burgundy: pleated panels, open front, arabesque embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Arabesque pleated abaya

    An open pleated abaya in burgundy, embroidered with gold arabesque scrollwork down both front edges and above the pleated sleeve ends. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Pleated panels
    • Open front
    • Arabesque embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Rosebud layered abaya in dusty mauve: layered sleeves, closed front, rosebud embroidery, matching scarf£99Regular £125· 21% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Rosebud layered abaya

    A dusty mauve layered-sleeve abaya with a round neck, embroidered with pink rosebuds on a cream vine in a spray over one shoulder and on the layered sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Layered sleeves
    • Closed front
    • Rosebud embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
  • Design preview of the Iris tulip abaya in navy: petal sleeves, open front, iris embroidery, matching scarf£120Regular £150· 20% offDesign preview4 photos
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    Iris tulip abaya

    An open tulip abaya in navy with petal sleeves, embroidered with soft blue irises in a spray over one shoulder and down the front, and on the sleeves. Comes with a matching scarf.

    • Petal sleeves
    • Open front
    • Iris embroidery
    • Matching scarf
    • Nida, crepe or chiffon
Design preview of the Rosebud tulip abayaDesign preview
Rosebud tulip abaya · GS046

01

Dressing up without upstaging the couple

A guest outfit has a narrow job. It should show you made an effort for the day and still leave every eye on the couple and their families. The iris and rosebud designs manage that because their embroidery is soft in colour: blue irises on silver-green stems against navy, and pink rosebuds on a cream vine against dusty mauve. Neither reads as white, red or heavy gold in a photograph.

If you know the family’s colours or theme, check them first. Ivory is lovely but worth asking about before a nikah, since pale shades are now a common choice for the main outfit; our guide on wearing white to a nikah covers this. Burgundy reads as wine rather than red, but in families who keep red for the big day, navy or chocolate brown is the safer pick.

Design preview of the Iris layered abaya, sleeveDesign preview
Iris layered abaya · GS095 · Sleeve

02

Which design for which event

Most weddings are several gatherings, and your abaya can change with them. For a daytime nikah at home or in a mosque, a closed and easy shape keeps you covered when you sit on the floor and stand again: the rosebud bell abaya, with its round neck and flared sleeves, or the iris layered abaya, whose two flared sleeve layers carry the embroidery.

Evening receptions and walimas are where the statement pieces earn their place. The cape abayas run embroidery along the edges of a short cape over the shoulders, which shows well across a table and in group photos. The pleated abayas have knife pleats in the side panels that move as you walk, with embroidery down the front edges and just above the pleated sleeve ends.

  • Nikah and daytime: Rosebud bell, Iris layered, Rosebud tulip
  • Evening reception and walima: Iris cape, Arabesque cape, Palm Arc pleated, Iris pleated
  • Mehndi or a family dinner: Iris bisht, Rosebud layered, Rosebud cape
Design preview of the Palm Arc pleated abayaDesign preview
Palm Arc pleated abaya · GS074

03

Wearing it over a dressier outfit

Most of these designs open at the front, namely the bisht, tulip, cape and pleated shapes, so they can go over something more formal, such as an embroidered kameez and trousers or a full-length party dress. The abaya covers you on the way in and out, and you decide how much of the outfit underneath shows once you are seated.

Length matters more at a wedding than on an ordinary day, because you will be in shoes you rarely wear. Send the length you want measured with those shoes on (see abaya length with shoes), or ask for the slightly shorter ankle-length hem, which keeps the edge clear of steps and stages. If the abaya will sit over another long outfit, say so in your request so the measurements we agree in the quote allow for it.

Design preview of the Rosebud bell abaya, necklineDesign preview
Rosebud bell abaya · GS036 · Neckline

04

Fabric and embroidery for a long evening

All three fabrics cost the same, so choose for the venue. Crepe has a fine grainy texture and enough weight to hang neatly through hours of sitting at a reception. Chiffon floats and looks soft in photographs, but it is slightly sheer, so a lining is worth adding under hall lights and camera flash. Nida, soft and matte, is comfortable for a daytime nikah at home.

The embroidery can be done by hand, by machine or a mix of both, again at one price. Hand stitching gives the iris petals and rosebuds a little depth, while machine stitching keeps long lines such as the arabesque scrolls sharp and even.

In close-up

The embroidery up close

Necklines, sleeves and backs from this collection. Tap a name to see every view of that design.

Your choices

What you can choose or change

  • Fabric chosen for the event: nida, crepe or chiffon, each at the same price
  • Embroidery by hand, by machine or a mix, with no change in price
  • S to XL or cut to your measurements, each labelled body or garment
  • A lining under chiffon for evening lights and photographs
  • A shorter or longer cape on the cape designs, or plain sleeve ends on the pleated ones
  • A scarf to match the abaya, included with every design

Initials, a name or a monogram can be embroidered too: tell us the letters and where you would like them, and we confirm the size and thread in your quote.

Anything else you would like changed, ask in your quote request and we tell you honestly whether it can be done.

How to order

Four steps, all in writing

  1. 1. Pick a design. Open it and press Customize This Product, or send us your own picture.
  2. 2. Send your size or measurements. S to XL, or your own numbers. See the size guide.
  3. 3. Approve your written quote. It lists the design, fabric, measurements, delivery and the total, and you pay in full before we cut.
  4. 4. We make and ship it. 5 to 7 working days of production in Pakistan, then shipping, which is extra and varies by destination.

Delivery to the UK

Quoted and paid in pounds. Your quote includes delivery to your door and any import VAT, duty and courier fees, so there is nothing to pay when the parcel arrives. Ordering from the UK

Delivery to the UAE

Choose to be quoted in US dollars, euros or pounds. Delivery to any emirate and the import charges are included in the quote. Ordering from the UAE · the Gulf

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FAQ

Wedding guest abayas questions

Can I wear an abaya to a wedding as a guest?

Yes. A dressier abaya suits a nikah, a mehndi or a walima. Choose a shape and colour that feel festive without competing with the couple, and check the family’s colours if you can.

Do you make the main wedding outfits too?

No. We do not make the main wedding outfits, so these designs are for guests and family rather than the couple themselves.

Which colour is safest for a nikah?

Navy with the Iris embroidery or dusty mauve with Rosebud. Both have enough colour to read clearly as not white in photographs, and neither is red. Ivory is best checked with the family first.

Will my abaya be ready for the wedding date?

We cannot promise a delivery date. Production is 5 to 7 working days once the quote is approved and paid, and shipping is extra and varies by country. Tell us the date of the wedding in your request and ask about timing, and order as early as you can.

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Ready when you are

Found the one? Make it yours.

Send the design you like with your size or measurements, and we reply with a written quote.

No commitment until you approve your written quote.