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Occasions and ordering · 8 October 2026 · 3 min read

Does asking for a quote commit you to ordering?

Is a tailoring quote free, and does asking commit you? No: when an order becomes firm, why nothing is paid before then, and how to say no thanks politely.

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No. Asking is not ordering

Asking us for a quote does not commit you to anything, and there is nothing to pay for asking. An order only becomes firm when you approve the written quote and pay in full. Until then you can ask questions, change your mind, compare options or simply not reply.

A “no obligation” quote means exactly that, wherever you see the phrase: the business sets out what it would make and for how much, and the decision stays with you.

The moment an order becomes firm

With us, there are two steps, and both must happen before any work begins.

  • You approve the written quote. It sets out the agreed design, fabric, measurements, any customisation, the total cost including delivery and import charges, the processing time and the policies that apply.
  • You pay in full, by bank transfer, Wise or a card payment link.
  • For Stitching Only, making starts once your fabric has also reached us, after we have confirmed it is suitable.

What happens after you pay

Payment is the point of commitment, and the terms change at that moment. If you cancel a paid order before cutting, you are refunded what you paid minus the cost of any fabric already bought for your order; with Stitching Only nothing is deducted for fabric. Once cutting has started, there is no refund. The full terms are in our article on cancelling or reporting a fault and on the payment and cancellations page.

That is why it is worth taking your time at the quote stage. Read it carefully, ask about anything unclear, and only approve when every detail is right.

How to decline politely

There is no need to explain yourself, but a short reply is kind and keeps the door open. Any of these is enough:

  • “Thank you for the quote. I have decided not to go ahead this time.”
  • “Thanks, I am going to wait until later in the year and will be in touch.”
  • “Thank you. Could you tell me what would change if I chose a simpler design?”

Getting a quote worth deciding on

The clearer your enquiry, the more useful the quote. Our guide to writing an enquiry that gets a clear quote covers what to include, and what to look for in your written quote helps you read it. The first enquiry needs only your name, email, country, city, the garment, quantity, service option, design images and notes; your full address comes later, if you go ahead. Start with custom stitching or go straight to the quote form.

Common questions

Do tailors charge for a quote?

Many quote without charge, but practice varies, especially where a tailor must examine fabric in person. If you are unsure, ask before sending anything.

Can I ask for changes after receiving a quote?

Yes. A quote is a proposal, and changing the design, fabric or quantity before you approve it simply produces a revised quote.

How long do I have to decide?

Our written quote states how long it remains valid. If you need longer, ask, and we can look at it again.

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Put it into practice

Send us your measurements, design images or fabric photos and we’ll send you a written quote.

No commitment until you approve your written quote.