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Occasions and ordering · 8 October 2026 · 3 min read

Pre-order vs made to order: what is the difference?

Pre-order vs made to order: one reserves a piece from a batch that will be made later in standard sizes, the other is made for you after you order. What each means.

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Two promises that sound alike

A pre-order reserves an item that is not in stock yet: the seller makes or receives a batch later, in standard sizes, and sends you one. Made to order means a single piece is made after you order it, for you. Pre-order is about waiting for stock; made to order is about there never being stock at all.

Both involve paying before you receive anything and both involve a wait, which is why shoppers mix them up. The difference shows up in sizing, in what you can change and in what happens if something goes wrong.

How a pre-order works

Brands use pre-orders to judge demand before a production run, or to sell a collection before it lands. You pick a size from the size chart, pay or put down a deposit, and wait for the batch. Every buyer of that style receives an identical garment in their size.

  • Sizing: standard sizes only. If you sit between two, you choose and hope.
  • Changes: usually none. The design is fixed for the whole run.
  • The wait: depends on the batch, so a delay at the factory delays everyone.
  • Returns: often similar to ordinary stock, because the item could be sold to someone else.

How made to order works

With made to order, the piece is cut and sewn once your order is confirmed. It may still be made in a standard size, but because it is a single garment the maker can often change a length or a sleeve. When it is cut to your own measurements, it is made to measure, which is the version most people mean when they want something that truly fits.

  • Sizing: a standard size, or your own measurements.
  • Changes: agreed before cutting, within what the design and fabric allow.
  • The wait: the making time for one piece, plus shipping.
  • Returns: custom pieces cannot be resold, so sellers usually offer a fix for their own mistakes rather than a change of mind refund.

Ready to ship, for completeness

Ready to ship is the third label you will see. The garment already exists and leaves soon after you pay. It is the fastest route and the least personal. Our guide to made to measure, ready to wear or unstitched sets out how ready-made clothes compare with having a suit stitched.

Which one is ours

We work made to order and, for most pieces, made to measure. Each piece is made after your quote is approved and paid, so there is no batch to wait for. Some of our designs can be ordered in sizes S to XL or to your measurements; the tiered maxi dress is one example. Anything you send us as your own design is always cut to you.

Making takes 5 to 7 working days, counted from when you approve your written quote and pay in full; shipping time is extra and varies by destination. The details are in how the making time is counted. If that suits your plans, ask for a quote or read the custom stitching page first.

Common questions

Is a pre-order the same as a deposit?

No. A pre-order is a way of buying something that is not in stock yet. Some sellers take a deposit for it and some take the full price; the item is the same either way.

Can I change my size after placing a pre-order?

That depends on the seller. Because the batch is made in set quantities per size, a change may or may not be possible, so ask before you pay.

Why does made to order cost more than ready to wear?

One garment is planned, cut and sewn at a time instead of dozens in a run, so the work is not shared across a batch. In return you get your own size and some say in the details.

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Put it into practice

Send us your measurements, design images or fabric photos and we’ll send you a written quote.

No commitment until you approve your written quote.