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A black dress for a funeral, and ordering with enough notice
A funeral asks for a dress that says nothing about itself: plain, covered, without shine. Two of ours answer that. The Long sleeve seamed maxi in black has a round neck, long slim sleeves and a hem at the ankle or, if you ask, at the calf, with no embroidery, no print and no trim; ask for a lining so it does not show light. The shirt dress in Black is plain too, with a collar, buttons to the hem and long sleeves, and its side slits can be made shallower. The Tiered Maxi in Black is plain but it is chiffon and it moves, so it suits a memorial gathering more than a graveside. The frock with red roses and the gold sets are for other days.
Customs differ, and it is worth asking before you settle on black. In many Pakistani and South Asian families mourners wear plain white or soft pale colours; in others, particularly among families settled in the UK and elsewhere, black or dark colours are usual. Neither is wrong. If you are not sure, ask someone close to the family or choose a quiet dark colour such as navy or charcoal: the Charcoal Minimal Frock, drawn in charcoal grey rather than black, is a gentler plain choice with three-quarter sleeves and a pleated skirt to the calf. At many funerals women keep their heads covered, so bring a plain black scarf of your own, keep jewellery to a watch and small studs, and wear flat closed shoes. White or black: what to wear to a Pakistani funeral goes into the day itself, and if you would rather wear an abaya than a dress, our black abayas are made to measure in the same way.
Be honest with yourself about the timing
A funeral often comes within a day or two, and a dress made to order cannot be hurried to meet that. Making takes 5 to 7 working days once your written quote is approved and paid in full, and shipping comes after, taking as long as the courier needs to reach your country. So a black dress ordered now is realistically for a memorial or a prayer gathering some weeks on, for the chehlum in families that hold one, or for the wardrobe: a plain black dress kept for the days nobody plans. We never promise a date. If you have one in mind, tell us and we will say plainly whether it is possible, as should you tell your tailor your event date explains.
Black near the face, and keeping it black
Black near the face suits some people better than others. Against deep and olive skin it looks sharp and clean; on very fair or cool-toned skin a solid black neckline can drain colour from the face, and a scarf, a necklace or a lower neckline brings it back. The cut does more slimming than the colour, as do dark colours make you look slimmer? explains, and if a true black feels hard, the Tiered Maxi also comes in Navy and the seamed maxi in navy and forest green. Once the dress is yours, wash it inside out and cool with other darks and dry it out of the sun; how to keep black clothes from fading has the rest.
Ordering a black dress
When you ask for a quote, name the design and say Black where the design has several colours, give your size or your measurements marked as body or garment, and add the sleeve, the hem and whether you want a lining. Every detail is agreed in writing before cutting, and the quote covers delivery to your door with any import duty and taxes, so nothing is owed when the parcel arrives. Our size guide shows where each measurement is taken.